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TGIF: Shabbat Tips for Busy Parents

By Jodi Jarvis
Director of Families with Young Children and Interfaith Engagement
Combined Jewish Philanthropies

created at: 2012-06-01Looking for some easy ways to make Shabbat happen in your busy home? Here are a few suggestions to help get your weekend off to a special start.

Prettify your Shabbat table

  • Treat yourself and your family to fresh-cut flowers from a local farm stand, or invest in a flowering potted plant that will last for more than a week.
  • Take a field trip to a craft store with your young child and pick out several artificial flowers (they’ve come a long way!); use wire-cutter pliers to separate bunches into individual flowers before arranging them in vases that your children can decorate.
  • Each week, have your children make the Shabbat flower arrangement (using either the fresh or faux flowers).

Incorporate tzedakah into your weekly ritual

  • Put a tzedakah (charity) box on your Shabbat table for your family to see.
  • Encourage everyone to gather change throughout the week to deposit into the box on Shabbat.
  • Once a month, sort and count your change; to make tzedakah a tangible experience for your young children, have them buy basic necessities for people in need (food, clothing, personal hygiene products, dental care products, etc.) with the money they have collected.
  • Take your children to a local organization periodically to donate the goods they have purchased.

Light up the night

  • Use tea lights in votives as a safe and easy candle option for young children (they burn out quickly).
  • For child-friendly lighting options, use extra-long fireplace matches or a long, tapered candle to light the Shabbat candles.
  • Use the candle-lighting opportunity to remind young children of important fire-safety rules.

Remember the juice or wine

  • Any grape beverage will do—white, red, purple, plain, sparkling or fermented!
  • Use a special cup or goblet to signify Shabbat.

Include the God-given carb

  • Try making your own challah (here’s an easy recipe to try), or find challah locally at most grocery and specialty stores.
  • For an easy child-friendly idea, buy soft breadstick dough in the dairy section of your grocery store and try braiding and baking it with your child.

Don’t feel pressured to cook a fancy meal

  • You don’t have to make a chicken dinner with all the fixings to celebrate Shabbat; any food will do, including take-out (even pizza)!

Make bedtime extra special

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